Do the sleep study!!
My fatigue was horrible, and I felt unrested every day when I awoke. My rheumatologist referred me to a sleep clinic, and I went through the sleep study.
Lo and behold, I have Restless Legs Syndrome. My leg jerks were waking me up 28 times an hour, and I had no idea!! My sleep cycles were out of whack, and I was seriously sleep-deprived.
Now that I've gotten my RLS pretty much under control, my fatigue is much better, and I feel rested when I wake up. I still have fibromyalgia, of course, but I feel SO much better, and my pain has significantly decreased!!
It is very common for those with fibromyalgia to have a sleep disorder as well, so I would highly encourage you (all of you!) to have a sleep study done. It can make a world of difference in your fibromyalgia pain! You could have a disorder that's contributing to your fibromyalgia fatigue and pain and not even know it!! Besides, the study doesn't hurt, it (usually) only takes one night, and insurance often covers it. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain!
Let me know if either of you decide to do it!

I'd say you're both good candidates for a study.
P.S. I have weird dreams too, but every doctor I've talked to (and there's been a lot) says it could be so many things. It could be diet, anxiety, exhaustian, medicine, fibromyalgia, etc, etc. I hope you can figure out the cause of yours, though. Maybe you can experiment with your daily routine (what you eat, when you eat, when you sleep, what vitamins you take, etc.) and journal how any changes affect your sleep? Good luck!

Also, are you supposed to take the Ambien long-term? Be careful with that stuff; I'm told it can mess with your sleep cycles, too. If you're not under a physician's guidance regarding the Ambien, I'd suggest that you at least mention it to your family doctor.
[This message has been edited by Anonymity (edited 01-14-2003).]