info? heart failure - Fibromyalgia Message Board

carolinagal65 · 06-19-2008, 10:47 AM

Well I am in a bad flair. Thought it was over; the previous 18hours were good. Iam usually happy in the am. but this morning my head hurts my feet hurt my upper and lower back hurt. I got into some stress when spouse"Goat"
will not take care of himself. I think his heart failure situation is back. and he said "do you think i should go to the doctor?"
Please somebody-help I feel like i am going to sing and not a pretty sound.
He left to have lunch with a friend who just had open heart surgery about 10 days ago. and that presents another situation. like the blind leading the blind.
His doc is 30 miles the other direction! I also think he maybe has had a mild stroke because he is droping his left foot so hard. He also has neuropathy, very poor vision even corrected with specs and laser for behind the eye bleeding/diabetes. and much too much to mention here. so i am venting venting........... any suggestions short of disappearing.
cgal65

Moonlady · 06-19-2008, 12:45 PM

{{{HUGS}}}

That is the best I can offer, I know how you feel and stress does sometimes make things worse. I hate it when the mornings are just as bad as the evening. I too usually feel pretty good in the mornings and don't flare until later in the day.

I suggest making that appointment for your husband and make sure he goes. If in doubt a visit to the doctor is the best thing. It can save a life!!!

Good luck to you and I hope you feel better soon.

Donna1964 · 06-19-2008, 06:19 PM

If your hubby is tight about money you could make that appointment and suggest that you'll be wasting money if he doesn't go because most specialist charge you if you don't show. Bless you honey, my hubby doesn't have as serious a list of problems but he is a big helpless baby too.

I've threatened more that once to run away. Want to go with me

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Try to relax and feel better.
Donna

carolinagal65 · 06-22-2008, 05:33 PM

Donna1964 thanks
these hubbies are something else. He likes to deny how it really is.
Cg65

carolinagal65 · 06-22-2008, 05:34 PM

Moonlady Thanks & Huggs Cg65