well i have my hubby do the bills theres no way i could...i put my debit card in a different place in my wallet cause id debit stuff when i didn't have money in my account. so i try and pay for stuff only in cash. as like blue its all about notes for us that works..i make a list of everything i need to do that day,,week ,,like
1. go to bank- cash check
2.get 20.00 out .
3.drive into town go to Safeway get milk ,roast etc.
i check everything off as i go. i have my husband fill out all my paper work if that kind of stuff needs to be done..
maybe you could have a friend, parent, look over your bills each month or when you need to bal check book and pay them with a nice lunch or coffee or dinner?
when you go some place or when you come home just check to see if car is off and check it off an date it so then you'll know ..some thing like that ,or sticky notes on the mirror like blue does...
we all are in this boat together,,will make it but yes we need to learn how to survive and i believe we can!!!
i think we are very strong people who suffer from this, its non stop pain and mental stress 24/7.... most would just lose it!..