Hello & Welcome!
It seems like trauma is the trigger... mine started when I got pregnant with my first child. Then everything got worst after giving birth the 3rd time. They are 10 yrs apart.
FM brings on numerous symptoms. Some come & go, even allergies. We all seem to have an area where the pain seems to center. My lower back always hurts from an old injury. Its worst when the also.. weather gets colder. Course FM gets worst which makes everything else also. But the FM pain centers in my neck mostly in my neck and extends into my upper back, & shoulders. When worst headaches come on.
I have always had insomnia issues & take a muscle relaxed now that puts me to sleep & also helps.with pain.
When I was 18 fatigue hit hard when I got pregnant. My body has felt heavy & sore since. The derealization among other probe. It wasn't till I was 29 I was diagnosed. After 11 yrs I figuredit couldn't get worst, & it did. I'm still learning to control it but seems to just get worst & worst. Summer is the easiest time for me.
I know its frustraiting, but you are not alone. We are all different & have different probe but the same story's... I spent 11 yrs trying to find some magic pill just to find there is no cure. Its a hard thing to except but it'll get easier. You have to learn to live different.