Re: Crazy thinking?
you are doing what every woman who is smart does, change things around so you feel better. besides all that long hair just give ya a headache. you want extreme? i shave my head bald and have for 14 years now.
it's not going to change anything but how you feel so do it! it's hair. it grows back. rebel a little. adapt with an open mind to change.
as for the person you are now. empty my aunt fannies behind! you are not a shell of who you were. life is just changing and you have to catch up with it all. create a new you, sounds like it's time. i love my naked head. i gave up hair, makeup, nails, all the girley stuff and funny thing now i get more compliments than i ever did with all that fake me going on. giggle. who knew under all my personal what i look like hangups there was a pretty lady? not me. giggle.
i say dye it purple and green and blue and any color that makes you smile.