Hi Sweetfiscus

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I'm right where you're at--six 1/2 weeks post-op right foot bunionectomy(12/31/03). What you've described is exactly where I'm at. I know we all tend to think that six weeks is the "magic number", but after watching my 14 year old daughter recover from this same surgery, I guess I went into this with a very realistic attitude. The same doc did both our surgeries & he is very cautious in returning back to activities, etc. & even more so with her. She was on crutches for six weeks, and wasn't released to return to sports for five months!!
As for me, I was on crutches for about three weeks & just got out of the "boot" at my six week visit. He said my bone is about 60% healed & it actually could take 18 months for it to be totally healed!! I am wearing shoes (about a size larger than normal) most of the time around the house, but still wear my boot when I go out & have to walk any distance. The shoes are about as comfortable as possible, but my foot still hurts much of the time. I still walk very slowly with a limp. I, too, have the swelling in & around the big toe joint & in the ball of my foot which makes walking regular almost impossible at this point. Looking at my foot, big toe area, from the side, it is at least 1 1/2 - 2 times as "thick" as my left foot, if this makes sense. I talked w/my doc about it & he said this is normal. He has me wrap foot with Coban to help control swelling--are you wrapping yours at all? He also gave me a prescription for a compression sock which I haven't gone & got yet. He said controlling swelling is very important at this point. I'm not taking any prescriptions or any medication for this--I didn't know there was such a thing. As for going barefoot, my doc said absolutely not at all right now! He said this is very bad for my foot.
As frustrating as this long recovery process is, I do see progress from week to week. It sounds like 5 months may be the "magic number" for most--that's pretty much what I've prepared myself for. We're going on a cruise in early April which will be about 3 months post-op for me, and I'm hoping by then I'll be a lot less "gimpy" than I am now, but I know I won't be 100%!!
Hang in there & know that you're in good company with all of us fellow bunionites here on this board!!
Gimpy1