Kehorner,
That's pretty much what our family doctor said but I've done gone second guessing him again

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He said that you could cut off all but your bit toe and you'd be just fine... but then I was reading (can't find it now, grr) an old post where a lady had the surgery because she was having issues with things like painful callouses...???
I've been under pressure from the day he was born to have the surgery to seperate his toes from family members and such. They insist he will be teased to no ends and that this will bother him terribly. I don't think that will be the case... and they are NOT allowed to make him feel ashamed or the need to hide his toes at all, damnit! Anyway, I thought I'd ask someone who actually has or had syndactlyly and get their opinion... not my mother's

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I think I'm rambling a bit, plus, company just called and said they were 10 minutes away.... no time to proofread, gotta shove the pile of clean, unfolded clothes into the closet!