I am happy you are been released from hospital and you can finally get on with your life. Swelling isn't so bad, at least it isn't painful but it sure does take a while to go down! I was wondering why you will still have a problem with shoes, I assume it is because your big toe still sticks up. I am shocked that you mentioned your surgeon was experimenting, did he even get your permission? I certainly wouldn't go back to him for the following reasons 1) if you aren't happy with your results and 2) if you can even trust him. Whose interests is he putting first?
Is there any signs of his procedure working? I noticed my toe would be lower than the rest, since doing the toe exercises, it has settled into a better position, although it is still lower than the rest but not as bad. Hmm I feel angry with your surgeon, but that is my personal feeling.
I am sorry you are experiencing pain in your good foot. I think it is a good idea to play with the orthodics before considering surgery, this will give you more time to consider whether you would use the same surgeon.
I hope everything works out, you have been very strong so far.