Wide, flexible,
soft-as-butter leather shoes and moleskin bunion pads (as well as orthodics) helped me. You can also have a shoemaker stretch your shoes using a device that pushes out a bump where the bunion rubs the side. (You can buy something to do this yourself-- You attach the little plastic "bumps" where you need them. However, the shoemakers have better equipment (and probably better techniques); I had better results with them. I even had them work on my ice skates! I finally had the bunion surgery and now laugh when I wear a pair of old shoes that still has bulges on the sides (most of which were made by my feet, not a device

). Until you can have the surgery, forget fashion-- Go for comfort and look forward to fashion at this time next year.