Sandy, I was 51 when I had the surgery and very active, too. Worked in the yard all the time, ran here and there, loved to walk for exercise (ha ha!) and MOST of all, loved to shop the mall. Since having three foot surgeries in three years my life has changed dreamatically. But, finally, I find I am gradually getting back to the things I used to love doing. Maybe not at the level I once did, but at least I am doing it. Hang in there, it WILL get better. It was the hardest thing I ever did but I got through it with my sense of humor and my sanity and I know you will, too.