Its such a horrible topic, isn't it??
Well, as for the doctor, this is not a favorite doctor of mine, I was referred to her through my HMO - don't you just love HMOs??

Needless to say, I was not impressed.
I was a little irritated about the diet thing, because I do have a healthy diet as it is. I could probably stand to lose about 20 pounds, but I've always been that overweight and it's never caused this problem before. I think, and the doc kind of shook her head, is that I have always had a sensitive stomach, and a lot of food upsets it, and I think maybe all the upset stomachs caused this. So, I have always watched my diet a little to try to prevent from getting the stomach problems.
Like I said, it's not a big problem, it only happens every couple months or so. I think I've heard they have preparation H suppositories you can buy over the counter. Maybe I will try that next time. I guess my main concern is that its ok to use just that. Can hemorrhoids cause any problems later down the line?
And just an FYI - I have a friend who actually did have the surgery, and you're right, i think its an awful surgery to have. It took her forever to recover!!