Thank you guys so much. It has been so frustrating going through this. I havent felt the same since August and it is very hard to change your whole life in only a few short months...not to mention quitting smoking. lol. I will attempt to talk to her again...without my dad
though... I live in Fl, and he lives in NY. I think I would have been fine with the whole Lupus thing, but it is the shingles Im afraid of. Hopefully I dont sound crazy, but the mind reads so much and it makes my thought process foggy. Thanks again.