Hey there I had both my nipples pierced about 10 years ago. Most painful piercing I EVER GOT
. By now it really shouldn't be pussing. How do you clean it? DON'T use alcohol or hydrogen peroxide! Use soap and water and twist through back and forth. I use regular dover soap. In the beginning I used anti-bacterial soap. You can try using sea salt and lukewarm water. Mix it in a small dixie cup. Lean forward and press breast against the cup...press firmly and sit up or lay down with it for about 10 mins. everyday. This often helps infections. Avoid bacitracin and neosporin now since it can trap bacteria.
I would have problems off and on only after "encounters." I took out one of mine and have a permanent hole. Not to be gross but I do have to squeeze both sides every couple of days because it does get pus inside. But, again, I had it for a long time. Perhaps yours will close up...? I am not deformed at all.
If there is an infection don't take it out until you get it checked at the tattoo shop or preferably by a dermatologist as this can cause a further problem.