i dont really know what the main problem is,but i have trouble urinating every single time that i want to. ive been having this problem for a very very long time now. i live in an apartment with my mom and nobody else. and when i have to urinate,i have to tell her to leave the bedroom,close all doors,i need to take my clothes off,when i enter the bathroom,i shut the door,turn on the fan,turn on the water and i have to stand in a specific position. even then,most times i cant urinate cause im afraid that she will hear me doing it or i will hear some sort of noise to break my concentration. i get real nervous and my legs tighten up and even if i want to go badly,i can't do it at all. forget about urinating in public or even at a relatives house,i have so much trouble doing it at home and i feel like this ruins my life,because i cant get a stready job and i cant go anywhere too far because i would never be able to urinate. In 1998,when i had to take a bus cross-country,i couldnt urintate for 3 days and got very sick afterwards. i am being very serious here,can anyone tell me what can i do to change this problem..it has ruined my life and i know that it wont just go away by itself.