i dont really know what the main problem is,but i have trouble urinating every single time that i want to. ive been having this problem for a very very long time now. i live in an apartment with my mom and nobody else. and when i have to urinate,i have to tell her to leave the bedroom,close all doors,i need to take my clothes off,when i enter the bathroom,i shut the door,turn on the fan,turn on the water and i have to stand in a specific position. even then,most times i cant urinate cause im afraid that she will hear me doing it or i will hear some sort of noise to break my concentration. i get real nervous and my legs tighten up and even if i want to go badly,i can't do it at all. forget about urinating in public or even at a relatives house,i have so much trouble doing it at home and i feel like this ruins my life,because i cant get a stready job and i cant go anywhere too far because i would never be able to urinate. In 1998,when i had to take a bus cross-country,i couldnt urintate for 3 days and got very sick afterwards. i am being very serious here,can anyone tell me what can i do to change this problem..it has ruined my life and i know that it wont just go away by itself.
Possibly an enlarged prostrate gland. Go to your doctor. Also depression, anxiety, and hyper tension maybe involved. High blood pressure maybe aggitating it even more. Maybe even an a STD. Just go get checked.
thanks for your reply,i can surely rule out an STD,cause i have never had sex before. and i do have hypertension,but i dont know if this problem will ever go away..it has been with me for about 15 years now and i'm not even in my 30s.