Re: Is my boyfriend drinking too much?
The little red flag has been hoisted, hasn't it? It is time to have a talk about your your feelings, which represent a legitimate concern.
His first reaction will likely give you the answer. For him to be the man you need, he must put your feeling first and happily change his habits in order for you to be assured this subject is resolved forever. There is no waiting for problems to begin.
I think we all have our phases of life in which we do certain things, and we move on though them gracefully as possible. When choosing a mate, the partners much both choose healthy minded folks that will be here for as long as possible together.
I hope very much that your man graciously accepts the challenge and put the cork on the bottle.
By the way, thank you for your question...I am in a similar situation with different issues, and by answering your question, I answered my own!