Hi Guys I know I havent been on for a while. I saw Bill G had the first anniversary of Moms passing, you weren't alone I had my Dad's on Jan 28th. I really thought it would be an awful day but so many things happened i didnt have time to be sad. The best thing that happened was my friend had twin daughters and i went to see them on the 28th, it made me think that here we are the cycle of life has gone round again. I celebrated Dads life instead of mourned for what i was missing, yes it is still hard i miss him being here physically, but i remembered all the good times and what he brought to my life and taught me - thanks dad x
my kids said today is the anniversary of grandad getting his angel wings and they didnt get sad either.
I wanted to share it with you to let you all know that yes grief does gentley slowly smooth away and we do get slowly in a better place to be happy again, i hope it gives some hope, because i look back at all the bad days and all the sadness lonliness emptiness and tears ...... but it truly does get easier