I recently lost my baby girl 2wks old - Grief & Loss Message Board

sdavid1 · 02-17-2007, 05:56 PM

I gave birth to my baby girl (Liberty) Jan 23 of this year and she passed 2wks later. I am having a hard time accepting this and was wondering if there was anyone out there who has experience with this. She was my first baby and I was so excited about her entering the world and then she was taken from me. I dont know what to do!

serinity · 02-17-2007, 09:38 PM

I have not lost a child but I am so sorry for your loss.
Sending big hugs your way

CoyoteBound · 02-18-2007, 01:40 AM

sdavid1,

i am so sorry to hear that you lost your baby! That has got to be one of the hardest things to do is bury your child. Maybe you could get some counceling to help you cope with this. I know it's got to be terrible for you. My thoughts and prayrs go out to you!

God Bless You,
Jan

B143C · 02-18-2007, 04:52 PM

Hi. I'm so sorry for your loss of your daugther. I can not imagine what you are going thru. I was on my way to the foot problems board when something made me click into this forum - the first thing I saw was your post.

I am Christian writer and children's ministry aurthor . . . just last week I felt compelled to write a little piece for one of my regular companies I freelance for. As soon as I saw your post - I knew I had to post it for you. I seldom write things like this. I"ve never been in this paticular forum . . . perhaps it was meant for you. . .

You will be in my prayers. Remember John 14:27 and hide it in your heart. There could be no greater comforter for you both. Jesus has a rocking chair . . . I'm sure of it! Don't be afraid to seek help. Take time for yourself and remember one thousand years on earth is but a day in heaven. Live long and live on and as God says - Be still and know that I am God.

My child you have a new home
And although it saddens me,
I know it is a special place
Where someday I too shall be.
Faith tells me not to give up . . .
But to close my eyes a while
And I can see you standing with God.
I can see your shining smile.
You are so happy and full of life!
Your checks rosy and red -
With those wings you always hid so well
And a halo atop your head.
I hear God whisper to me
And I know you’re not alone
Sitting on the Father’s lap
There upon his throne.
You become like the sun at night,
Or like the morning air -
I do not have to see those things
To know that they are there.
My little angel now watches over me
I am never alone. . .
And this my promise to you my angel . . .
My child I will live on.

terry111 · 02-19-2007, 01:43 AM

I have never lost a child. I just wanted to let you know I am sorry for your loss and for the days that follow. I know I would be so devastated, angry, sad and totally hurt if it happened to me. With all deaths, there are many emotions, but with the death of your little baby girl, who you carried inside of you for so long, who you wanted to bring into the world to live a happy life--well, that must seem so unfair to you and to her. It wasn't time for her yet, etc... If you are religious at all, maybe try turning to that for help. If not, just try to cry and talk as much as you can about it and keep the memories of her you have alive and clear. I'm soooo sorry!!!