Originally Posted by Titchou
Why don't you just go see him? Surely she wouldn't cause a scene in front of him. I'd just pick up and go.
I am actually going to see him tomorrow and saw him on Father's Day. I don't live close so it compounds things. I am about a five hour drive away and am not able to drive there.
I know there must be others who have been through this. It would mean so much to have input in decision-making etc. I feel like I am going crazy because I am so fixated on how cruelly the step mother is. She would not cause a scene in front of him, but she is certainly creating havoc behind the scenes.