Re: I Lost my Husband Too....
Sorry Shirley. Some of us go the other way. After losing more than 31 children to miscarriage, my stepfather, my great grandparents, my wife and my stepchildren all before i was 30, yea, god don't impress me much as the kind of guy i would want to serve or even hang out with. Plus i got the worst commercial for god that anybody could. I was told, by my severely abusive muther, that if god hadn't wanted her to treat me and beat me the way she did then he would've stopped her. I prefer cosmic explainations for loss. It hurts less to think that things are chance, decision and karma than it does to think that some god is controling it all. That puts him in a very bad light for some of us. Time is the only true eternal and infinite thing in the universe, as far as I believe now. I'm not knocking your belief system, I'm just letting other people know that there are alternatives to dieties. Shane
Last edited by cherokepyrte; 12-17-2007 at 05:23 PM.