I miss him so much :( Please read - Grief & Loss Message Board

gibson1 · 08-24-2008, 08:18 AM

I know that my loss isn't as great as some of yours, but I'm still hurting a lot. I'm only 17, and my boyfriend of 2 years just went to college about a week ago. I'm still stuck in high school. He's always out at parties, and never invites me. I seriously can never STOP thinking about him, and often times I just start crying randomly throughout the day. I can't even sleep. I haven't slept for 4 days. I am so dependent on him. And I have to stop, because he has all but forgotton about me. Please help. Please.

applepieH · 08-24-2008, 08:53 AM

Hi.
Well I'm 18 and my boyfriend and I are very far apart from each other for college, vey far apart. I understand what you mean when you say you miss him. You need to talk to him clearly, and ask him what he really wants because if he doesn't then you need to get out of this relationship, the sooner the better. I know it's hard, maybe to help you not feel so depressed you could find a hobby to kill time, do something that will keep you entertained.