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Old 12-08-2008, 07:00 PM   #1
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I am lost and in the most unbearable pain i could have never imagined

I just lost my life partner of over 15 years on Nov. 17th 2008. Nothing is right or real anymore. visiting with or talking to other people does not help. I am so lost in this unbearable pain and it continues to get worse every second, every minute, every hour and every day. She was (is) my soulmate and love of my life. I don't know what to do or how to go on. Please help...

 
Old 12-08-2008, 07:20 PM   #2
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Re: I am lost and in the most unbearable pain i could have never imagined

I just lost my husband on Nov.25. I know what you are feeling. I am online now if you want to reply to me. Yes it is unbearable , almost surreal. like I am in a dream or was my life with him just one big dream.

 
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Old 12-09-2008, 09:46 AM   #3
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Re: I am lost and in the most unbearable pain i could have never imagined

See a therapist. Really, it helps. Also, there are bereavement groups where you can interact with people who are feeling the same way.

I didn't lose a partner. I lost my mom and even though I knew it was inevitable (she had cancer), I feel deep sadness knowing I will never hug her or see her beautiful eyes or hear her sing to my cat or talk in Spanish to her childhood friends or giggle about something silly. There is just no escaping grief.

Good luck.

 
Old 12-09-2008, 06:33 PM   #4
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Re: I am lost and in the most unbearable pain i could have never imagined

( removed ) They just came and picked up her car, where she took her final breath except for the ones that life support kept her alive on. Thank you. The agony is unbearable.

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Old 12-09-2008, 06:34 PM   #5
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Re: I am lost and in the most unbearable pain i could have never imagined

thank you. I am in therapy.

 
Old 04-21-2009, 05:07 AM   #6
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Re: I am lost and in the most unbearable pain i could have never imagined

landshere15.. how have u been doing..i lost my husband 17th february 2009 and am in such pain i can literally feel my heart break into pieces....are u any better??

 
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