work friend lost her boyfriend
hey all, in early february, a girl i work with lost her boyfriend along with 2 other friends. it was tragic. bushfires swept by near my house killing nearly 200 people. so this was nearly 2 months ago. all she says now is that she wants to f*** life off. apparently she is drinking more and tonight she was planning on going out with a friend but ditched the friend. the friend was really annoyed. the friend also told my brother that she was thinking of committing suicide. now this is just hear say, it may not be true. you cant always believe chinese whispers. anyway she's always writing negative things on her fb page. is she just trying to seek attention or is this really part of the grieving process? i lost my mum a few years back and a cousin so i know what its like but i never ditched friends or gave up on life. i feel the people who died would want you to move forward and be successful in life, they wouldnt want you to give up so this is what kept me going. she hasnt been back to work since and im not sure if she is still doing uni. everyones different i know but we all manage to get through it and it seems that she never will. i feel sorry for her.