I met my husband in high school, right away I was infatuated with him. We were together for 7 years and had 2 wonderdul boys. My oldest just turned 6 and my youngest just turned 5. My husband was 25 when he passed away in a car accident I am 25 as well. He was the love of my life. He was the best husband and fantastic father.
Let me back track to my first pregnancy... my MIL and i have never gotten along. She kicked me out when my son was 5 days old and made my husband choose between myself and his mother... (he choose me). She has always treated my husband differently from his other 2 brothers.. from paying for their college and my husband paying for his own.. to buying quads for their other 2 sons but not my husband. We have had an off and on relationship with them over the entire time I was with my husband.
The day my husband passed away was the worst day of my life and it just keeps getting worse. I am left with just myself and my boys and get to explain to them that Daddy is gone. My MIL said shed help anyway she could... its been almost 3 months since he passed away and only gave me 400 which isnt even close to half. All she is worried about is her RIGHT to see my boys. She only saw them like once a month if that when my husband was alive, so why try to be involved now? My husbands brother saw them maybe 3 times a year and now feels he has a right to see them even after he said it should of been me who died and not my husband... How do I manage my husbands family? HELP PLEASE!!!