Re: My parents just passed away 6 weeks apart
first thing, let me say, iam so sorry for such a loss!
ive been were you are right now, and yes, it is a load to carry!!!
the hurt is so big right now, i know all to well..
i dont know your age, but that really doent matter, hurt is hurt...
a broken heart and broken sprit is also tough...
its going to take some time, you will never be the same, but you will be a stronger person from this..
i still grieve my family, and its been years now, but it still hurts, and theres days i cry alot, and days i feel warm just thinking of them, but that will be...
let yourself grieve, and cry, and get mad, its all ok...
let those family members help you, let them listen to your pain, shutting them out, may not be the best thing right now..
learn to lean on them, and let them lean on you too from time to time, it will help all of you...
also, i learned how to comfort myself, by letting go,,,,
its not an easy road i know, but time will help you..
please find yourself a grief support group!!!
it will help make a differance..
god bless, and remember, your not alone!!!!!!!!!!