Re: Grief losing my husband
First of all, I am SO SORRY for your loss. So very sorry. I agree, even within this tragedy, God does have a Divine Plan.
I couldn't disagree more with the person who told you to keep your grief to yourself.
I encourage anyone reading this to share their grief with those who will listen, and will not try to shut you up or tell you when you have grieved "enough" or have not grieved the way they think you should. If you need extra help at this hard time, don't hesitate to go to a grief counselor, or a local grief support group.
Your loss must feel overwhelming at times. I hope you will keep sharing, and know that even "strangers" on a board such a this care for you, and about you, and want you to know that we are listening, and that your grief is relevant, and that your husband's life deserves to be shared and celebrated. Encourage your son to share his grief, too.
God bless, Sue