Re: how did you start to feel normal again?
This Wed., the 16th, will be 3 years since my wife left. "Normal"? After being with her for 25 years and now alone, there is no normal. The gut wrenching pain subsides but the emptiness is always there. The feeling of incompleteness.
I am how I am now just by existing, going about "living" day to day....work and home. Maybe a normal would happen if I ever met someone else...to take my mind off the memories and the rest, but I don't see that happening, therefore no normal.