oh i am so excited about doing my hair for the very first time! On the rare occassion that I try to straighten it, it takes at least 2 hours, very sore arms and a disasterous result...
I had not read your post (you hadn't posted it yet caliente) so instead of getting a puff ball from blowdrying, not knowing "that's ok" since the iron i guess would smooth it out (hard to imagine but i'll try)...i was home today so i washed my hair in the morning, blow dried it just for a couple of minutes so it's not soaking, then put serum in and let it air dry throughout the whole day and evening.
When it dried, i had corkscrew curls, like really really curly..my almost waist length hair curls up to just around my shoulders.
I then heated the iron - i have a large plated one to save time - and added some more serum ( i think i overdid it in that area lol) and using love8's advice, tugged as i ironed which i'm like duh why have i not tried that before, but i didn't know, and whalah, i completed in about half an hour and my hair is straight! I can't believe I did it myself, it feels so good and the thought I saved money from going to the salon, i'm very excited about it.
I was going to get it wet thinking it would burn being dry, but after I tried a sample and it seemed ok, i didn't get it wet and now that you told me that is bad caliente, i am so relieved and won't do it in the future.
Thanks so much, i can't believe i got such useful advice about my hair that i have always failed to straighten, with a couple of very practical but necessary tips - thanks so much...

(not that i have anywhere to go, but it feels good having gotten it done. Whenever I go to the salon the person doing my hair asks where I am going that night, i feel like a loser cuz i don't go anywhere and feel pressured to say "to a dinner" or "family gathering" or something like that

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