Classic symptoms of peri menopausal migraines & peri menopausal "episodes" (emotional ups & downs).
Either you need to find yourself a good *female* GYN and/or a
*female* Neurologist that specializes in migraines/headaches. The latter are usually found at Headache Clinics.
Males don't know Jack about what's going on.
Zoloft will help you with the "episodes".
I feel for ya girlfriend. Been there, done that!!!!!
Good Luck!!!!!