When is it going to far trying to avoid unhealthy foods?
My wife and I are having a lot of problems over our different views on healthy eating.
Now, we do not really disagree on what is healthy and what is unhealthy. The disagreement is about how you draw the line / compromise on "perfect" avoidance of unhealthy foods.
Your kid goes to a birthday party...can they eat a piece of store-bought cake that the other kids are having, or do you bring a special gmo-free, organic, cup-cake for your child to eat to avoid getting any gmo products or excitotoxins or high fructose corn syrup or whatever?
My view is kind of simple, kind of complex. I used to eat everything. Then I was a vegan. Now I eat everything again. I try to steer to healthy choices, but to me I figure, I've got to die of something, I'm not in this life to chase physical immortality. I'm here to interact with others, grow, learn, enjoy, teach, whatever. There's more to life than longevity. If our kids get teased or ostracized for eating weird, is that healthy? How does the psychological impact of a nonconformist dietary philosophy weigh against the health benefits?
I see a hypocrisy in the parent who would move heaven and earth to prevent their child from ingesting a cold medicine that could help alleviate a child's pain and distress from a bad cold, because it contains half a milligram of a possible carcinogen, when that same parent will drive the child to play dates when there is as much chance of getting a serious car accident as their is that that half a milligram of questionable ingredient in some medicine is going to somehow harm the child in the long run.
Okay, I realized I'm rambling and not being very clear. Just trying to see other perspectives than mine (or my wife's) on this issue of how you decide when to go with the flow and just accept that not ever ingredient in every food you eat is risk-free, versus taking a zero tolerance approach to potential risks.