Hi mmslc
I had the same impression from my dr/surgeon for my stapedectomy I was like what "surgery right now kinda thing" and he was like "yup what r u waiting for?" well needless to say I did put him off for 8 yrs, when I finally plucked up the courage to go back he said the same thing! But that time I was informed and ready to go ahead. It was a big deal for me becase I hads never known what it was like to hear from that side so didn't know what I was missing! Do research on the surgeon, the surgery and your recovery (that was the hardest part for most of us I would say! right TXMommy27 ?)
to a dr/surgeon its all in a days work so they can seem blase (sp?) about your feelings. I was paranoid that he would mess up etc as it goes my hearing after surgery was one of his best and he has done 1,000's.
YOU will find lots of support on these boards many of us have had the surgery.
Good luck with your decision