I had surgery five months ago and good results, but now hearing isn't so good..I'm sorry I don't have advice but I really sympathize, I don't understand what's going on with my ears either...

Anyway I hope you find some answers & I wish you very best of luck. I also would like to hear my children at night, sometimes when they come in our room (because of bad dream or whatever) it scares me out of my wits as I don't hear them coming!! and it's a little startling for them too as I jump up suddenly out of a sound sleep!
Anyway all I am doing, is trying to be patient and listen to my ENT who says it can take a while for the hearing to stabilize. I have fingers crossed for that...and for you too. I'm not in your area so can't recommend any doctors though.