| Re: Mild heart attacks, blocked arteries and water in lungs.
im going thru the same problem with my father. im 32, and my dad has dad 2 heart attacks, colon cancer(removed) diabettes, now in dialysis, diabetic complication which eneded up in right leg amputation below the kneee. his birthday is in two weeks and will be 78.
he goes thru life and accepts what ever has happened. i feel very sad and wish he passes away so he no longer suffers, but he just enjoys each day with his grand children, eventhough he cannot walk and is on wheelchair 24/7.
i cannot imagine nor feel how much abuse his body has gone thru many surgeries.
for you, there is nothing i can say or do to make things better. i feel with you nad wish the best for your family. it's just part of life; to live and die... nothing more and nothing else. it's what you do in between that is up to you. you father is gravely ill and might not survive, but you will, and if you have childred, you will survive thru them, and so on...
relaxe, enjoy what you have, but this sad feelings are just human nature.
let God deal with it.
Last edited by ojohnr; 01-22-2005 at 03:30 AM.
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