jess,
I'm going to weigh in on the side of heart disease not likely. THat pinky numbness is SO charachteristic of a nerve impingement either in your wrist, shoulder or spinal nerve. Same goes for that pain and numbness in the jaw, but there I'll go with probably TMJ syndrome...you might be a teeth clencher while you sleep.
BUT you do have what can only be called perhaps the worst possible familial risk factors for heart disease. I assume all three direct relatives died of heart disease?
Your cholesterol is pretty good (with great LDL's) but quite uncommon and first thing I'd get a retest to see the real picture after fasting to get the triglycerides in line. Your HDL's are also low and present a risk factor separate in itself.
But before talking up ways to lower your risk, get that fasting blood test done. You might also ask the doctor to run an Lp(a) on you if your insurance company is okay with that. Most are, some aren't. If you need a pre-cert for it, all your doctor has to do is reiterate that family history and your low HDL.
(And we'll see you back in a couple weeks



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