I am 29 years old, I enjoy motorcycling, tennis and have a lovely wife and two children.
Recently I have had a shock in that I need valve replacement surgery. I went to the hospital months ago and informed my surgeon I was experiencing chest pains, shortness of breath and tiredness. The chest pains are infrequent but the shortness of breath on physical exertion is guaranteed and I do feel tired. I had a catheta inserted into my arteries to check my heart and the surgeon confirmed I needed surgery. I currently have a very high probability of success and I am worried if I do not have the operation my heart will become damaged.
After researching this I noted there are risks of blood clotting, mechanical valve failure and bleeding to death should I have a motorbike accident because I will need to be on warfarin for the rest of my life. I was recently jumped on by four lads down at the local takeaway for no reason whatsoever and was injured and bruised. I was glad at the time I was not on warfarin. I have also heard following an operation I will need regular blood check ups and possibly injections of warfarin.
This leads me to my next set of questions, has anyone had heart replacement surgery with a replacement valve, does it actually make you feel better, do you feel less tired and physically fitter for instance can you exercise normally and jog, do the chest pains go away after surgery, do you stop getting chest infections, are you able to do normal things like ride a motorbike, jog etc, if you cut yourself and your on warfarin does your blood still clot or is it a trip to hospital, how often do you see a doctor each month after the operation, how often do you take warfarin, is the mechanical valve clicking annoying or too loud, do you fell better in your self.
I really need a no nonsense straight answer to all this, I love my Wife and Children dearly and I am currently able to do everything except running or jogging for a significant amount of time. I am also afraid being a bit of a wimp about things like this yet I feel guilty about not having the operation because it worries my Wife making me feel selfish and a bit of a coward. I also do feel tired and depressed normally towards the end of a working week and my Wife believes its to do with the heart condition. She feels if I had the valve replaced I would be more energetic, she is a nurse but I would rather hear the truth from someone who has had the surgery. Dont be afraid to say you had the surgery and it made no difference to you, please can someone give me some advice.

I would also be interested to know how you felt after the operation, was it painful during the procedure, how long did you take to recover after the operation, I would be really grateful for some straight advice