Dating - Herpes Message Board

May75 · 11-26-2003, 06:14 PM

As anyone used any of those herpes dating services? Im trying to be optimist about having H1 even though it seems every other day im freaking crying or tearing up because of this. Anyways I dont think I can date again, that is be possibly rejected because of my status. It would be too much, as it is I'm still trying to cope with this. Anyways enough about the tearjerker. Any one online dating service one might recommend or social in Southern Cali?

buildlynx · 11-28-2003, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by May75

As anyone used any of those herpes dating services? Im trying to be optimist about having H1 even though it seems every other day im freaking crying or tearing up because of this. Anyways I dont think I can date again, that is be possibly rejected because of my status. It would be too much, as it is I'm still trying to cope with this. Anyways enough about the tearjerker. Any one online dating service one might recommend or social in Southern Cali?

I dont know of any services in that area, but what do you look like? I am assuming you are of the female persuasion. Who knows, you could meet someone here. Crazier things have happend

movingrightalong · 11-28-2003, 12:24 PM

Hi May
I'm bumping up a wonderful little thread called Happy Couples. It might give you some good insight into the wonderful things that the future can hold, Herpes or not.
Movingrightalong

May75 · 11-29-2003, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by buildlynx

I dont know of any services in that area, but what do you look like? I am assuming you are of the female persuasion. Who knows, you could meet someone here. Crazier things have happend

LOL Well I'm a 28 yr. old petite latina currently living in SOuthern California . Im currently teaching. I'm of average built with med brown hair, brown eyes and just started going back to the gym after a 3 month hiatus. Hey you never know my romeo might be on here, right?, LOL

confused20 · 11-29-2003, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by May75

LOL Well I'm a 28 yr. old petite latina currently living in SOuthern California . Im currently teaching. I'm of average built with med brown hair, brown eyes and just started going back to the gym after a 3 month hiatus. Hey you never know my romeo might be on here, right?, LOL

Hmmm.....Can ur romeo be younger than you? Say maybe 21? (hey like me) LOL. Too bad im all the way in chicago. Don't worry about it, u'll find someone. I honestly believe that there is someone for everyone. U shouldn't feel like anything less than everyone else. It's not like herpes makes u undateable. All u have to do now is be extra nicer and bring something more to the table in your relationships. I bet there are plenty of guys willing to be with u regardless of ur H status. I remember when I thought I had Herpes I felt like I would never get another girl in my life. Sure I wanted someone, but I didn't think anyone would want to be with me. I was always super nice to girls and the biggest gentleman u could think of. So when I found out I didn't have H, I was so relieved that I promised God that I would treat girls even better than before. Not take anything for granted. And I also became much more open minded, and decided that I would never turn down a girl (assuming I really liked her) just because she had Herpes. Because I know I would still want people to give me a chance if I would've had it. So u see I'm sure if u're a good person and have a lot to offer, there are plenty guys that'll jump at the chance to be with u. Just stay positive and keep looking. Take care.