| Re: Natural Childbirth and Herpes
Hey everybody! I'm back from my backpacking trip! Couldn't pass this thread up.
First, mra, thank you for your kind description of me. Since you are so wonderful yourself, your opinion means a lot to me.
I think the type of advice you get about birth-with-herpes depends on the type of person or professional you ask. I was gung-ho all-natural and had had two homebirths with midwives before I contracted h. They had been in business for over 30 years (that was about 15 years ago, and they are still in business) and had had many births to women with herpes, and no cases of transmission. They were very positive, calming, encouraging, and helpful--which is exactly what you need when you're pregnant, right? I encourage you not to listen to or read any horror stories--it makes the chances of an ob (due to stress) more pronounced.
At 38 weeks of my third pregnancy I developed a primary ob (my husband--now ex--had herpes) and the sore wasn't healed by the time I went into labor. I called the midwives and one went with us to the hospital where my back-up dr practiced. I had the Caesarean--not a good experience when you have had two beautiful homebirths! But definitely necessary. Three days later the sore was gone and we could not get a positive culture from the site!
My next birth was an all-natural (Bradley method is much more successful than LaMaze!) homebirth. The midwives took cultures toward the end of my pregnancy, but otherwise never bothered me about it, and certainly never alarmed me! My husband helped a lot by taking charge of the other children and letting me sleep a lot. The trick, as always, pregnant or no, is to eat well, sleep lots, and stay healthy and happy. Anyway, I had a beautiful fourth boy, who has always been extremely healthy.
Good luck--please let me know how you're doing.
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