| Re: new here. need help
shyann, I had urinary tract problems for over 10 years. Evidently, this was caused by becoming sexually active and my not understanding that I don't produce enough lubrication naturally. The irritation to the urethra became urinary tract infections. After I learned how to avoid infections (you probably know: drink LOTS of pure water every day, every hour; wipe from front to back, never vice versa; always pee out all the urine you possibly can; always pee afer sex, and then wash; and ,for me, always use a lubricant like KY Silky during sex--this helps avoid sex-related herpes ob's, also.) I had the symptoms of infections without the bacteria because my system had been so traumatized. I went to several drs who traumatized it further(!) by doing urethral dilations, exams, silver nitrate treatments, etc. Finally I found one wise dr who told me my system needed a good long rest with no invasive procedures. He told me not to eat spicey foods, drink alcohol or coffee, or smoke cigarettes (all urethral irritants.) The pain continued for several years. Then I got pregnant and it went away (they say because the pressure deadened the nerves.) I've never had it since, and have always been careful about infections.
Now, maybe this isn't your problem, but if it's even half of your problem, it's worth changing some of your habits. Incidentally, you will be changing some habits that would bring on herpes ob's, too.
Your problem could be the herpes, but feeling like you have to pee when you don't is the sign of a Urinary tract infection--I've never heard of anyone who has it as a sign of herpes. Maybe someone else will post who does have that symptom.
If you think the problem is h, try reading a lot of threads on this board before going to a dr (since you've already been.) Perhaps some of the suggestions will help you.
One question: is the burning during urination near the opening of your urethra, or deep inside? And when you are feeling sore, does pushing on your tummy (bladder) make you feel a little sore, too? That would be an inflamed opening from your bladder to your urethra, which I had.
Anyway, I'm sorry to hear what your symptoms are. I would much rather have my present herpes symptoms than that incapacitating, burning pain in my urethra. Good luck.
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