Originally Posted by dave14701
ARe you sure?
Yes. The above posters are right. Whether the girl swallows is not relevant, this is a virus transmitted by skin-to-skin contact and particularly by contact with an active sore - to a lesser extent, through asymptomatic shedding.
Having said this, which type of herpes do you have? If you have type 2, it is in fact unlikely that the girl would get oral herpes from your genitals, particularly if she has type 1 already orally (or type 2 herself genitally) - type 2 prefers the genitals.
If you have type 1, the chances of her getting orally infected are higher as type 1 prefers the mouth.