Hey Steven!
Seems like you are going through a massive amount of stress due to your health. I think a large portion of your symptoms is due to that, stress, anxiety etc.. I went through the same when I was first diagnosed with hsv, I was afraid of every single disease there is, mainly hiv though. Had many tests done, so far all clear. I´ve calmed down since but can still get a bit upset if I let myself start to ponder over hiv etc..
You have done all possible tests and have come out clean. You need to start to focus on relaxing and taking care of yourself. Take care of your health, mental and physical. Stop touching your lymphs, they will enlarge and get sore just for that. If it still seems to you they bother you, then go see a doctor and get a medical opinion on the issue. As to the pimples, very stress related easily. You could see a dermatologist about that.
Are you having any genital problems due to your hsv? If not, consider yourself lucky

. Educate yourself about hsv, so that you will recognize possible symptoms or prodomes, transmission possibilites, how to be safe with a partner etc.. If you´re not having symptoms then you might not need antivirals, but you could still take them supressivly if you wanted to lower the risk of transmission.
But the key here is to calm down. You know now that you have hsv-1 and hsv-2, very common, like you probably already know. Know the facts about the virus and take care of yourself.
You´ll be fine

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