hsvmom

Your baby should be fine. Neonatal herpes is rare and is more likely in patients who acquire herpes during the last trimester of their pregnancy. Try not to be too concerned about it and talk to your ob about suppressive therapy as you near delivery.

As for your question about telling your partner... Legally, yes you can get through this without letting your partner know. Your obstetrician is obligated to keep ALL your medical information private. I'm sure she will assume that he knows, however, so if you insist on keeping it from him then you should talk with her about this. You won't be able to keep it just between you and her however. Most of your delivery team will need to know as well as the pediatrician who examins your baby and the nursery team. That's a good thing, of course, because it is necessary to protect your baby. It is also wise to share the information with your new baby's pediatrician so he/she can continue to be monitored for symptoms.

Legalities aside, it is still important that you tell him for many many reasons.

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Mom to two HSV-1 survivors!