catharine101

Hi there -

Yes, it is possible to be only a "carrier", although that term is somewhat misleading. With herpres, regardless of type or location, there are many people who do indeed have the virus, but have never shown a symptom. Hence the fact that so many people contract the virus after what was "safe sex".

If a person with herpes never shows a symptom, it is still possible to pass on the virus through shedding. As an example, my partner, whom I have been seeing for almost 2 years, never showed any symptoms of herpes. A month ago, after being with him over that long period, I had an outbreak. He still doesn't show symptoms, and would be what you call a carrier.

Have yourself tested, but be aware that the test will not indicate whether you have oral or genital herpes. I see you are in the US - other posts I've read recommend that you get the Herpeselect test, as it will indicate whether you have type 1 or type 2. Type 1 is USUALLY oral and Type 2 is USUALLY genital, but be aware that either type can be in either location.

As well, if you've ever had a cold sore in your life, you will be positive for herpes - once you've got it it always stays. So if you had one as a kid the test won't be indicative of when you contracted the virus.

Hope this information helps.