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Palinia · 09-25-2003, 06:29 PM

I want to say HI to you all greart people . I love the support , you all give . I'm a female , I'm a LESIBAN I've been in a happy relationship for 4 yors . When I got this dreaded disease I was in a bad marriage from HE$$ . I'm not saying geting this caused me to turn LES ,it had a big impact . I would tell men my dreaded disease they would run . I got so tired of it I said what the HEC what can it hurt . The first woman I every meet I fell in LOVE . I'm going to tell you it didn't happen overnijht . She excepeted me & my disease , she is a wonderful person . I was married for 5 yors stayed in the relationship for 5 more yrs I felt like I had no way out . He would threaten me with mt disease . He said he would tell eveyone if I left him . I was scared to leave him . I want to tell you I've neaver in my life been so happy , in the 10 yors I was with my EX .I want to let you know I had to lose my kids to get rid of my EX . He done something horrible to my kids . He made his brags he would cause me to lose my kids if he couldn't live with me & the kids , sure enough he did . He got 7 yours for what he did . He out of jail now & wants me back . He has a nearve . I told him I was married , he still calls my mom & bugs her . I wanted to tell he is one crazy man he's bi polar . I'm not making fun of nobody that is . He was on drugs real bad wouldn't take his med . I don't want you to feel sorry for me the good LORD has taken care of me . I was so disdraught for a long time my GF has been their when I needed to cry . This happened in 1997 . I'm a much stromger person I'am today . I forgot to tell you I 've had H for 13 yors . I'm sorry this is so long it helps to talk & get it out .

Palinia · 09-26-2003, 10:19 AM

I'm saddened 15 people has read my story & no one has posted or said HI

movingrightalong · 09-26-2003, 04:53 PM

Hi. I think you'll find that everyone is friendly and helpful. I think that maybe noone responded becuase you didn't really have a question and you seemed to be doing alright. I think you'll find that if you're looking for answers or are seeking support you will definitely find it here. i'm new to this all, but this board has taken the pit out of my stomach that I had for the first few weeks when I figured out that I had this! Take care...

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freakedoutfemme · 09-26-2003, 05:38 PM

Welcome to the board!
I think this is a great way to vent, inspire, communicate and inform each other, especially since the common factor is we all have herpes.
Don't be discouraged about not having responses... I felt that way too at first but I'll be darned if I'm gonna give up on people who seem to be genuinely concerned (most people anyway). Give us a chance to know you and respond.

notsobad · 09-27-2003, 06:56 AM

Palinia welcome to the board! I don't think that people were ignoring you....but as someone else stated you seemed to be doing fine. You just needed to vent and we all understand that.

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