have you ever had oral sex performed on you? If so, it is possible to catch it that way....or even if you just had genital skin to skin contact with someone...no penetration or actual sex is needed to contract herpes. Do you get coldsores? It is supposedly possible to spread your herpes (coldsores) to your genitals if you touch your coldsore and immediately touch your genitals. I think it is rare, but possible. You should definately see a doctor, and make sure to do it immediately after symptoms appear...herpes swab tests can show a false negative if tested longer than 48 hours after the appearance of symptoms. You could also get a blood test for herpes, although a blood test would not show where the infection is actually located. If it came up type 1 positive, it wouldn't really mean that you have it genitally, you could just have it orally (like 80% of the population does). If it came up type 2 positive, then it is most likely located genitally. Type 2 orally is rare, it sticks mostly to genitals, but type 1 is very common in both locations. Definately see your doctor...you never know, it may just be jock itch or something like that, but only a doctor can test it and know for sure.