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Old 09-19-2008, 06:09 PM   #1
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I think I got genital herpes

I am freaking out. I made a huge mistake and had sex with a guy 10 days ago who said he contracted GH about 6 years ago. He wore a condom, but it fell off toward the end - he didn't put it on right and I knew it. I also performed oral sex on him - stupid, I know. Just two days after we had sex I developed an outbreak on my lip in the same place where I had a cold sore in the past. It turned into a herpes outbreak. Every day I have checked if I had any sores in the genital area. Everyday showed nothing, but today I noticed a blister on the outer area of my vagina. I cannot believe I have been so stupid considering I have not been the type of girl to sleep around. I will make an appointment with my doctor on Monday, but I am feeling like this is almost a death sentence. I know it's not, but who wants to be involved with someone who has genital herpes? I would really appreciate any advice.

 
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Old 09-19-2008, 06:27 PM   #2
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Re: I think I got genital herpes

Many people have Herpes. You aren't the only one! There are online dating sites for people with vareities of std's. I don't know if this helps your cause.

I actully just had had sex with my girlfreind of three weeks. And she gave me something but seeing as it's the weekend I can't go to the doctor which sucks. I am currently using creams to see if it helps. I am still unsure of what it is. I don't have any symptoms of anything I have read about. The only thing wrong is red spots on my genitals. There isn't any other symptom what so ever. I have no clue what it can be.???? Any ideas?

 
Old 09-19-2008, 06:28 PM   #3
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Re: I think I got genital herpes

I forgot to say that he told me he was on Valtrex and took it regularly. He also said he has not had an outbreak in months. I know you can catch it even without any visible outbreaks. I just can't believe what it happening.

 
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Re: I think I got genital herpes

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I I also performed oral sex on him - stupid, I know. Just two days after we had sex I developed an outbreak on my lip in the same place where I had a cold sore in the past. It turned into a herpes outbreak. Every day I have checked if I had any sores in the genital area. Everyday showed nothing, but today I noticed a blister on the outer area of my vagina.
So you already have herpes HSV-1 since you say you've had cold sores in the past. Do you know if this guy has type 1 or type 2? Lots of cases of herpes on the genitals is spread by having oral sex with someone who has oral (cold sores) herpes.

They say that having type 1 already gives you some protection of getting type 2 since the DNA of the virus is 50% identical.

But for now, first thing Monday call and ask to be seen ASAP. Don't let them blow you off until later in the week. You need to ask your doctor/gyno to do BOTH a swab of any sores AND a 'type specific "IgGblood test for BOTH type 1 and type 2" - HerpeSelect is one of the most common brands. Make sure they DO NOT order the useless IgM test. Refuse to pay for it if they do. This is an important timeline to determine if this is a new infection or not so get both done.

Let us know the results. Be sure you get a copy so you know the right test was done and the numeric values.

You say you don't know how anyone would want to get involved with someone who has genital herpes ... yet you did. It is not a death sentence. I know its horrible. Been almost a year for me and I still thinks it's horrible. But I don't feel like a hazardous waste unit anymore. I'm still me. And I'm pretty damn good at that! LOL.

Breathe ... relax. One in 5 people have this. Get educated and pass on your knowledge to someone who does not have it ... so they WON'T GET IT.
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Year one outbreaks Sep Oct Nov Dec Apr Jun. Ugh.
Year two outbreaks Dec Apr/May

Last edited by Truthseek; 09-19-2008 at 06:43 PM.

 
Old 09-19-2008, 06:49 PM   #5
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Re: I think I got genital herpes

Thanks. I know i need to relax. I just have no idea why I chose to have sex with this guy after hearing him tell me he had herpes. I asked the guy today if he had type 1 or 2 and he said he did not know. He said he never had a cold sore but he was diagnosed with herpes after an outbreak of blisters on his penis a little over 6 years ago. He did give me oral sex, so I am wondering if I got HSV 1 on my lip and genitals (which only has one blister right now) or if I got HSV 2 on my lips and genitals. I guess I won't know until I am tested. I will let you know what i learn from the doctor.

 
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