confused1989

hey last year i had a few little growths of the skin in between the vagina and anus , they didnt look like blisters or cuts jus growths and i had them either side !!! they wer itchy sometimes and just before they disapeared i began to pull thyem and they bled a little bit and became painful , they lasted about a week or two , since then i had nothing of the same , but every now and then i get a cut jus above clitorise just after oral sex !!!
the other week i had an operation in the womb which caused the vagina to be really red dry and saw , whilst having this i began notice a developed a big rash of spots not the same as the growths but they became very itchy and saw and my discharge became smelly and a yellow colour , when i went the doctors i was told i had a uterus infection and thrush and with the antibiotics and the cream the rash has gone however i now burn after sex and still itch and sometimes the smell is really bad !! i also get headaches alot and feel really depressed some times i often feel like a cole sore is about to appear around me mouth as ithurts like 1 but i never seem to get them !!
i really do think its herpes but as the doctor didnt say that i have doubt in my mind !!!
to make it worse i rememberd the otha day that my ex-boyfriend from 2 yrs ago had red lumps on the top of his penis that tunred white and they didnt hurt unless he was having sex , he said hed had it before with his ex and had been the doctors and was given cream so when i made him go the doctors he came back with pescribed cream and they just disapeared i checked the cream and it was just fro irratable skin !! now my new bf is having the same problem as he has got little ting red bumps on the egde of his penis and his wee hole is a little swollen , he feels no pain at all though!! i slept with him the day i finished my ant biotics and am wundering wether it could be that i have passed thrush or the infection on to him but my infection was in my uterus it wasnt diagnosed as an std.

i jsut would like to know what people think this is as i dont know if its just a skin condition a yeast infection or herpes!! please help me thankyou