having sex without a condom when no outbreaks - Herpes Message Board

ladybird207 · 02-18-2009, 05:39 PM

i got the idea that my boyfriend would only be able to catch genital herpes when i have an outbreak of genital herpes and have skin to skin with him. And i had vaginal sex with him for first and only time today, and i have no outbreaks on my skin and used lubricant. he no's there's always a risk but we thought it's skin to skin contact and not from the vaginal fluids. is he likely to have it now?

NY_girl · 02-18-2009, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ladybird207

i got the idea that my boyfriend would only be able to catch genital herpes when i have an outbreak of genital herpes and have skin to skin with him. And i had vaginal sex with him for first and only time today, and i have no outbreaks on my skin and used lubricant. he no's there's always a risk but we thought it's skin to skin contact and not from the vaginal fluids. is he likely to have it now?

The chance is slim, but it's possible