mama57

one of my friend got this disease without having any physical contact or sex with partners.since last 12 years she is not having any contact with her husband or any other man due to her lower back injury and last month she got this diseases and got divested as she doesn't know how she acquired this diseases?
she has gone through following situation since last 2 month.
She went to see her doctor in January for regular check up as she is diabetic and is finding difficulties in passing urine.she cannot empty her bladder at one go.she has to sit in toilet nearly 10 to 15 minute to empty her bladder.
she has been sent to blood test,urine test and sent to vascular surgeon for circulation problem.he did ultrasound of her stomach and other test.urine test revel there might be stone is forming but is expelled out of urine.She has gone for ct scan of kidney,and lower back,bone mineral density test and chest x ray for heavy breathing.after doing all this thing she got lots of itching on her lower part of the body,including stomach,thighs,genital parts,anus part etc.She got rash everywhere.due to too much itching and scrubbing hard there she got cuts over her genital part and she got some boils like symptoms on her anus part.she never got this short of itching before.her doctor was on holiday.she think it is heat rash as the temperature in Sydney was too high which has caused deaths also.she has applied heat rash cream and she find OK with that and her itching has suppressed.during February and march she had used public toilets no of times.when doctor ask her for urine test she used her toilet which was too dirty and she was not feeling like sitting on that but she has clean the surface with tissue paper and taken the urine.this has happen 2 times.then she has used public toilet in hospital where one man has used toilet and when she went inside it was pie everywhere on sit and condition was too unhygienic.again she has clean the toilet sit with tissue paper and used the toilet as she cant hold urine.she has to use toilet quite frequent for urination.most of the time she stays at home,she goes out only for medical treatment or some functions.
after using hospital toilet she started burning and itching in genital part and too much pain in lower back leg,dizzy,etc
she has gone to see her doctor where she gone for urine test and used again the dirty toilet of dispensary.
she did her internal examination and she took swab and sent for testing,and gave her antibiotic for time being to control soar throat and cough.her condition has worsen and she was in severe pain but because her husband was in hospital for kidney transplant she didn't complain. after 4 days doctor call her and told her she has got genital herpes and prescribed her Valtrex.
Doctor told her this can spread only after sex.my friend said she never had any sex with any body since last 12 years how come she get that and she told her that it might be past recurrence,may be she was having before but she didn't knew that.she told her she had gone through all the blood test when she did full body check up .anyway she had started medicine but so far it has not heel and doctor told her that it will never cure.She has to stay with it.she don't wants to give this disease to her family member so what should she do.she is quite depressed and angry that how come she got this disease?till she will not find out answers she want get peace.she became suicidal and told me all her story.I wants to help her and wants to know can you shade any light on her problem?
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