Did i give him herpes?? - Herpes Message Board

babsie · 05-22-2009, 11:24 AM

i am hsv2 positive. have been for 8 months now. i was involved w this guy and i told him right away. he kept tryin to mess w me because he didnt care but i did. the extent of our sexual contact was kissing and he fingered me for like 2 minutes i never touched his penis and his penis never touched my vagina. my last and only outbreak was 8 months ago when i first found out. i also have hpv genital warts and have been currently treating them. but he was also aware of this. he came to me saying that he had red itchy bumps ON his penis. is it possible that he caught something from me?

angeleyz81 · 05-22-2009, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by shrimp88

i am hsv2 positive. have been for 8 months now. i was involved w this guy and i told him right away. he kept tryin to mess w me because he didnt care but i did. the extent of our sexual contact was kissing and he fingered me for like 2 minutes i never touched his penis and his penis never touched my vagina. my last and only outbreak was 8 months ago when i first found out. i also have hpv genital warts and have been currently treating them. but he was also aware of this. he came to me saying that he had red itchy bumps ON his penis. is it possible that he caught something from me?

Hi.. no if your privates never came in contact with his.. then how would you pass it if it is from skin to skin contact. I think he may just want someone to blame if he has something.

babsie · 05-22-2009, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by angeleyesinnj81

Hi.. no if your privates never came in contact with his.. then how would you pass it if it is from skin to skin contact. I think he may just want someone to blame if he has something.

hes not blaming me but he brought it up to me. were supposed to talk tonight. hes not mad at me but what if he does have herpes? i feel guilty even tho i told him from day 1 that i have 2 stds...and not to mention i refused having sex w him many times because of what i have. i dont want anybody to catch hsv2 or hsv.

John4045 · 05-22-2009, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by shrimp88

hes not blaming me but he brought it up to me. were supposed to talk tonight. hes not mad at me but what if he does have herpes? i feel guilty even tho i told him from day 1 that i have 2 stds...and not to mention i refused having sex w him many times because of what i have. i dont want anybody to catch hsv2 or hsv.

maybe he masturbated right after fingering you. you shouldn't feel bad he knew what was up. and they're just skin diseases he'll get over it

babsie · 05-22-2009, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by John4045

maybe he masturbated right after fingering you. you shouldn't feel bad he knew what was up. and they're just skin diseases he'll get over it

i know but i dont want anybody to have to go through what ive gone through and hes younger than me and id feel soooo bad. also i work with him and i dont want him resenting me or anybody at work to think that i intentionally did this to him if he does have herpes.