Originally Posted by michellep777
Why I ask is because my husband of 9 years and the only partner I have had in 11 years has been having unprotected oral sex with prostitutes. When I found this out we both went and got tested for std's. I showed positive for HSV 2 and he showed negative. I have never had an outbreak or any other symptom. I have also had several children through IVF'S and thought maybe through the years and all the exams which were weekly than daily for several years something would have come up! I know it could be possible to be carrying this for years. But HOOKERS without protection! Just makes sense that he may have passed something to me!
I agree it makes sense that he probably passed it on to you but not always the case. I have not been pregnant I wonder if they test for herpes when your pregnant if they do then you can know 100% that it is him.
If his blood test came back negative though it may be a recent infection as it can take up to 4 months to show up. Do you know which test was done? The IgM is worthless and should not be used.. make sure it was the IgG.
People can have herpes for years and never show signs or symptoms but since I know some background I would think it was from him. Have him get tested again after the 4 month mark from his last encounter.