There are websites out there, but it is hard because I know for most it will tailor to Genial and oral herpes.
I haven't heard of this causing anything that would kill you, when reading things on the net you just need to be careful because a lot of the stuff will drive you insane and it is enough to make one want to live under a rock and never come out.
I have had genital HSV2 since Apr 2000 and in the beginning it was hard to deal with but after that once I understood the virus and know that essentially it is just a pesky skin condition it made me feel more at ease. It is not a death sentence, and it in no way shape or form changes the person that you were. You just need to run your life as you did and not let the virus run it.
If you have any questions people on the board can try to help offer advice.